S01E05-The Switch

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Kuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast

December 23, 2016

Intro
  1. This is Kuldrin’s Krypt season 1 episode 5 for December 23rd, 2016.
  2. (start theme pre-roll) Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispell myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Today we are going take a look at what it is to be a Switch.
  3. Rules to Love by:
      1. Safe, sane, consensual, informed
      2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity
      3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
  4. The Switch
    1. Dom/sub-Psychological
    2. Top/bottom-Physical
  5. From: http://www.submissiveguide.com/encyclopedia/switch/
    1. In BDSM, a switch is someone who participates in SM activities as both a top and a bottom, or possibly in D/s activities as both a Dominant and a submissive. A switch will be the top on some occasions and the bottom on other occasions, not necessarily with the same partner. Switching within a scene, or even during a session is very rare.
    2. Switches are known to get a negative reaction from some purists who believe you can not be a switch and that these individuals just can’t make up their minds. This is far from the truth. It is difficult to define exactly who is a switch; there are many heated debates about switches on the BDSM forums. However, it is agreed that a switch is someone who can be either a top or bottom (not necessarily to the same person), one who can both dominate and submit.
  6. Common Myths:
    1. Switches are confused because they haven’t met the right person
    2. Switches can’t be successful as a “real” Dom or as a “real” sub.
    3. Switches are typically bisexual
  7. Common mistakes
      1. Proper mental state to “scene”
      2. Communication breakdown
      3. Not knowing difference between dominant & domineering
  8. Summary
    1. People often shy away from admitting they like to switch because they fear derision.
    2. Being a switch is just as valuable a role as either of the others. The art of being able to fully submit or be a Top at one moment or another takes a very strong person that knows exactly what they want from BDSM and goes out to get it.

 

NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
  1. We are going to get into the ins and out of Dom and sub space/drop and how that can affect a relationship.
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