Recorded: 3/14/2021 / Published: //2021
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- In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also known as a scene or scening.
- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- “When Shouldn’t You Participate in BDSM Play-S03E36”
As we go through these remember:
- Mayfair and I are NOT licensed mental health professionals as this is a psychology-heavy episode.
- Both Kuldrin and Mayfair have personal experience with several different types of mental illnesses and treat this topic with the utmost respect.
- This is not a complete list and these are not the only reasons not to play.
- Some of these are and others are not absolute reasons to play or not to play.
- – Physical Health Issues: Diabetes, Blood Pressure, M.S., Blood Clotting Issues, Fibromyalgia, Strokes, Breathing issues, …
- – Mental Health Issues:
- – Anxiety disorders, Behavioural and emotional disorders in children, Bipolar affective disorder, Depression, Dissociation and dissociative disorders, Eating disorders, Obsessive-compulsive disorder, Paranoia, Post-traumatic stress disorder, Psychosis, and Schizophrenia https://kuldrinskrypt.com/MentalHealthDisorders
- – Personality Disorders listed in the DSM-V https://kuldrinskrypt.com/PersonalityDisorders:
- Paranoid, schizoid, schizotypal, antisocial, borderline, histrionic, narcissistic, avoidant, dependent, and obsessive-compulsive
- – Mood Disorders: Major Depression, Mania, Seasonal Affective Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, Schizophrenia,
- – Personality Vs Mood: The key difference between personality and mood disorders are the symptom patterns they cause. The main feature of mood disorders is periods of emotional highs and/or lows. Some personality disorders can cause mood swings, but this isn’t the main symptom of personality disorders. (https://www.promisesbehavioralhealth.com/addiction-recovery-blog/difference-between-personality-disorder-and-mood-disorder/)
- – Intoxication: Alcohol, Drugs, Top/Dom/bottom/sub/primal Space
- – Anger, Resentment, and Guilt! OH MY!!!
- – Concern about losing control.
- – A lack of communication.
- – You don’t want to play.
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