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Breaking News: The New Normal of BDSM-S03E10

Recorded: 9/6/2020 /  Published: 2/6/2021
    1. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about Breaking (News) the Norm with BDSM: The good, the bad, and the ugly.
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      2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
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  • DYING FOR IT: Six in ten pensioners want to have a threesome and try BDSM before they die by Sun Reporter, Aug. 27, 2020 
    • https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/fabulous/5975873/pensioners-threesome-bdsm-six-ten-die/
    • Six in ten pensioners want to have a threesome and the same proportion also said they wanted to try BDSM. And nearly half said they wanted a spanking session with their partner. More than half also said they wanted to experience role-play in the bedroom.
    • Women generally think about sex more than men, a poll of 2,400 over-60s found but one in 50 men and women said they thought about it more than ten times a day and one in ten said they wanted to start a new sexual relationship by the end of the year — even if that meant cheating on their partner.
    • A spokesman for OnBuy.com, who conducted the study, said: “As adults age, many begin to worry about sex later in life and shy away from sexual encounters. “However, studies show that frequent sex is reported to increase lifespan, solidify relationships, and improve physical and even mental health.”
  • – ECSO: Woman and 14-year-old boy engaged in BDSM relationship by: Cody Long, Aug 25, 2020
    • https://www.wkrg.com/local-news/ecso-woman-and-14-year-old-boy-engaged-in-bdsm-relationship/
    • PENSACOLA, Fla. (WKRG) — A woman is in jail after she was involved in a sexual relationship with a 14-year-old boy, according to the Escambia County Sheriff’s Office.
    • Leigh Ann Rhodes, 33, is charged with two counts of lewd/lascivious act on a minor, obscene communication and travel to lure a minor, transmission of harmful material to a minor and using a two-way communication device to facilitate a felony.
    • The Florida Department of Children and Families received an anonymous complaint through the DCF hotline on Friday, Aug. 21, stating Rhodes was having sex with a boy.
    • The victim told investigators they had oral sex and sexual intercourse and were communicating through Snapchat and text messages. Text messages reveal Rhodes and the victim were “engaged in a BDSM contract known as Bondage, Dominance and Submissive Sadomasochism,” according to the arrest report. Rhodes was the dominant role and the teenage boy played the submissive role, according to the report.
    • Deputies say the contract was signed through a text message on June 4, 2020. Rhodes said in a text message, “Is it honestly possible for us to have this relationship long term without someone finding out and me going to prison? Because it seems way too good to be true, baby.”
    • Deputies talked to Rhodes’ husband who said he was not aware of what was going on.
    • She is in the Escambia County Jail on a $125,000 bond.
  • Report: Jerry Falwell Watched While ‘Pool Boy’ Had Sex With His Wife by MICHAEL STONE Aug 24, 2020
    • Kinky Christians: Jerry Falwell, one of America’s leading evangelical Christians, liked to watch while his wife Becky Falwell had sexual relations with their “pool boy,” Giancarlo Granda.
    • Reuters reports: In a claim likely to intensify the controversy surrounding one of the most influential figures in the American Christian conservative movement, a business partner of Jerry Falwell Jr has come forward to say he had a years-long sexual relationship involving Falwell’s wife and the evangelical leader.
    • Giancarlo Granda says he was 20 when he met Jerry and Becki Falwell while working as a pool attendant at the Fontainebleau Miami Beach hotel in March 2012. Starting that month and continuing into 2018, Granda told Reuters that the relationship involved him having sex with Becki Falwell while Jerry Falwell looked on.
    • According to the report, the three met several times a year for six years, where they explored their unique sexual relationship.
    • Explaining that relationship, the Falwell’s “pool boy,” Giancarlo Granda, told Reuters:
    • Becki and I developed an intimate relationship and Jerry enjoyed watching from the corner of the room.
    • Granda “described the liaisons as frequent – ‘multiple times per year’ – and said the encounters took place at hotels in Miami and New York, and at the Falwells’ home in Virginia.”
    • What exactly is cuckolding? In basic terms, cuckolding is a fetish or kink in which a person gets turned on by their partner having sex with someone else.
    • It’s closely tied to BDSM with overlaps like domination, submission, and humiliation — minus the gear and spanking à la Fifty Shades.
    • Look, the fact that Falwell enjoyed watching the “pool boy” and his wife having sex is not a big deal as long as it was consensual, and in most cases such behavior should not be of public interest.
    • However, the fact that while engaging in this behavior Falwell served as head of Liberty University, and enforced a strict code of Christian purity that prohibited such conduct for all faculty, staff, and students, makes the behavior problematic and reflects a deep dishonesty and moral hypocrisy that is worth exposing.
    • Earlier this week, in an attempt at damage control, and anticipating that the story was about to go public, Falwell admitted that his wife had been having an affair with Granda, but omitted the part where he enjoyed watching the sexual relations between the “pool boy” and his wife.
    • In a statement, Falwell said “he forgave Becki for the affair,” implying that he was not aware of and participating in the relationship as a voyeur.
    • More dishonesty from this “good Christian man.”
    • Bottom line: Jerry Falwell, one of America’s leading evangelical Christians, liked to watch while his wife Becky Falwell had sexual relations with their “pool boy,” Giancarlo Granda.
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