Recorded: 08/02/2021 / Published: 02/28/2022
- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the rule life before lifestyle and the difference between stepping away and walking away.
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- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- “When is it Time to Step Away From BDSM?-S04E01”
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- What does it mean to step away?
- Taking a temporary break from parties, events, munches, cons, D/s dynamics, topping, bottoming, and/or other lifestyle-related activities.
- Stepping away is not to be confused with walking away. Walking away means that it isn’t a break, it is a decision to permanently leave.
- Why would someone need to step away?
- In general, it is best to follow the “Life before Lifestyle” rule but here are some specific reasons we can think of the people have, including ourselves, have given:
- – Marital/Relationship problems
- – Work
- – Stress
- – Frenzy
- – Issues within the community
- – Drama
- – Abuse
- – Dealing with recent or previous trauma or abuse
- – Death of a loved one
- – Boredom
- – Accidental injury of a partner
- – Depression
- – Anxiety
- – Burnout
- In general, it is best to follow the “Life before Lifestyle” rule but here are some specific reasons we can think of the people have, including ourselves, have given:
- How to help prevent the need to step away:
- – Develop a support system
- – Take time to learn about frenzy
- What does it mean to step away?
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