When is it Time to Step Away From BDSM?-S04E01

Recorded: 08/02/2021 / Published: 02/28/2022
  • In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the rule life before lifestyle and the difference between stepping away and walking away.  
    1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
    2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
    3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
  • “When is it Time to Step Away From BDSM?-S04E01” 
    1. What does it mean to step away?
      1. Taking a temporary break from parties, events, munches, cons, D/s dynamics, topping, bottoming, and/or other lifestyle-related activities.
      2. Stepping away is not to be confused with walking away. Walking away means that it isn’t a break, it is a decision to permanently leave.
    2. Why would someone need to step away?
      1. In general, it is best to follow the “Life before Lifestyle” rule but here are some specific reasons we can think of the people have, including ourselves, have given:
        1. – Marital/Relationship problems
        2. – Work
        3. – Stress
        4. – Frenzy
        5. – Issues within the community 
        6. – Drama
        7. – Abuse
        8. – Dealing with recent or previous trauma or abuse
        9. – Death of a loved one
        10. – Boredom
        11. – Accidental injury of a partner
        12. – Depression
        13. – Anxiety
        14. – Burnout
    3. How to help prevent the need to step away:
      1. – Develop a support system
      2. – Take time to learn about frenzy
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