Mindfucking Mindfully with Sir Ezra-S04E16

Recorded: Nov 28, 2021 / Published: May 3, 2022
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  • In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to Sir Ezra of House Algos about his new book “Minfucking Mindfully: A Guide to Mental Manipulation for BDSM and Sadomasochism. 
  1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
  2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
  3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
  • “Mindfucking Mindfully with Sir Ezra-S04E16”
    1. Sir Ezra is a Pansexual, Polyamorous, Dominant, and Sexual Sadist. When not volunteering at DomCon, the AVN’s, LA Pride, and Threshold or teaching classes like whipping, fire, negotiation, and, of course Mindfucking, he is an Intimacy Coach, Educator, and Author of “Mindfucking Mindfully”. https://AskEzra.info 
    2. Ten Licks”
      1. How long have been into Kink?
      2. Top, bottom, or switch?
      3. Relationship Status?
      4. Favorite Position?
      5. Favorite Implement?
      6. Favorite Roleplay?
      7. Favorite kink or fetish?
      8. Favorite place for kink?
      9. Strangest Place you’ve had sex?
      10. Something you want to try?
    3. What is mindfucking and what do you mean by “doing it mindfully”?
    4. What mindfucking is not: Pg. 22 para. 2.
    5. Types of Mindfucks:
      1. Illusions
      2. Humiliation
      3. Expectation
      4. Perceived Power
      5. Asymmetric Information (Midori)
      6. Perception Alteration
      7. Degrading or Ennobling
    6. Negotiation Types:
      1. Spamming
      2. Expectations and Conditional Ask
    7. Trauma-Informed Mindfucking
      1. EMDR
      2. Pg. 74 Negotiating Trauma.
    8. Nonconsensual Mindfucks
      1. Politics
      2. TV/Marketing
      3. Corporate Culture (Raises/Family)
    9. Cautions and Warnings:
      1. Mistakes Happen
      2. Potholes Vs Landmines
    10. Kinky Blackjack
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