Recorded: August 20, 2023 / Published: Nov 16, 2023 

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• – In this episode, we are diving into the why, what, when, where, and how of people being ashamed of their own kinks.
• – Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)

• • 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
  • 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
  • 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

• – “I’m Ashamed of My Kink-S05E12”

• Why do people feel shame?

1. 1. • • Society
        • Family
        • Friends
        • Religion
        • Self-esteem
        • Self judgement
        • Outed

• What exactly do people feel?

1. 1. • • Shame
        • Disgrace
        • Persecution 

• When do people feel ashamed?

1. 1. • • When they fantasize.
        • When they perform.
        • When it’s been done.
        • When others talk about it.

• Where do people feel shame?

1. 1. • • Home
        • Work
        • Church
        • Life

• How do people feel shame?

1. 1. • • Mentally
        • Physically
        • Financially
        • Relationships / Socially

• How does a person conquer their shame?

1. • • It depends on the person and their reason for feeling ashamed.
     • A better understanding of themselves.
     • A better understanding of their kinks.
     • A better understanding of their religion.
     • Therapy

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2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
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