S01E17-Moving Offline from Online

Kuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast
S01E17-Moving Online Play to Offline Play

Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. In our last episode we discussed the nuances of online play.  Today we’re looking at moving online relationships offline.  

When is the Right Time?  

  • Very individual
  • Typically most like to try for 6 months to a year after official collaring
  • Circumstances prove optimal
    • Things have lined up for a most enjoyable experience
    • Are you or they nearby?  Is this a vacation, or a permanent move?
    • Are you or they relocating to be closer?
    • Other situations with jobs, or family lining up just so?

Doing the Switch the Right Way

  • Safety First
  • Avoiding Catfish and Predators
  • Where to meet
  • Emergency protocols if things go badly
    • Have a safe place you can go
    • Have people you check in with
    • Making sure you’re not isolated
    • Basic first meeting practices

How Things Will Change

  • Your bond will grow deeper.  
  • There will need to be another negotiation.  
  • At first you’ll go through a training period.
  • Things aren’t going to go the way you initially thought they would.
  • You might feel bored at times.  Or annoyed, or depressed.  
  • The more work you put in, the better it will be.
  • You HAVE to be realistic about your limits, and communicate even more.  
  • You may find that an online life with this person works much better than offline.   

Making the Most of the New Experience

  • Keep it SSC, or RACK, or PRICK
  • Be realistic
  • Communicate about everything.  
  • Enjoy every moment.  
  • Have your own space


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  1. Next week Funsize is going to continue educating us about modern BDSM practices by discussing the ins and out of taking that online relationship to a real world setting. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.

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