Kuldrin’s Krypt: A BDSM 101 Podcast
S01E17-Moving Online Play to Offline Play
Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show this is a place to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.com. Joining us today and every episode hereafter is my new co-host, Funsize. In our last episode we discussed the nuances of online play. Today we’re looking at moving online relationships offline.
When is the Right Time?
- Very individual
- Typically most like to try for 6 months to a year after official collaring
- Circumstances prove optimal
- Things have lined up for a most enjoyable experience
- Are you or they nearby? Is this a vacation, or a permanent move?
- Are you or they relocating to be closer?
- Other situations with jobs, or family lining up just so?
Doing the Switch the Right Way
- Safety First
- Avoiding Catfish and Predators
- Where to meet
- Emergency protocols if things go badly
- Have a safe place you can go
- Have people you check in with
- Making sure you’re not isolated
- Basic first meeting practices
How Things Will Change
- Your bond will grow deeper.
- There will need to be another negotiation.
- At first you’ll go through a training period.
- Things aren’t going to go the way you initially thought they would.
- You might feel bored at times. Or annoyed, or depressed.
- The more work you put in, the better it will be.
- You HAVE to be realistic about your limits, and communicate even more.
- You may find that an online life with this person works much better than offline.
Making the Most of the New Experience
- Keep it SSC, or RACK, or PRICK
- Be realistic
- Communicate about everything.
- Enjoy every moment.
- Have your own space
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NEXT WEEK’S AGENDA
- Next week Funsize is going to continue educating us about modern BDSM practices by discussing the ins and out of taking that online relationship to a real world setting. In the meantime visit kuldrinskrypt.com to sign up for our mailing list, to get subscribed to the podcast, and also help support the show through patreon.
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